Do you find it hard to make friends with people the same gender as you?
Do people act surprised when you tell them you’re single?
If the answer to these questions is yes, you’re well on the way to being classed as “super attractive”.
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Jacob Lucas is a professional dating coach, and his Tik Tok videos, providing dating advice, are viewed by millions of people.
A recent series detailing the top 10 signs that you are super attractive has proven massively popular, with thousands of questions and comments.
Jacob’s first video looks at the five things all super attractive people do and asks, how many of these these things do you do too?
Number one, Jacob says, is that super attractive people “make access to them exclusive”.
“They don’t give their time to just anybody… people want what they can’t have,” he explained.
Second, he says, is that “super attractive people understand the art form of peacocking”.
He describes this as being able to stand out in a crowd.
If you try too hard to peacock, you look desperate but if you don’t do it at all, you get lost.
What Jacob suggests is to “wear something fashionable but also something a little bit different to draw people’s eyes towards you”.
Third, and very importantly, Jacob says super attractive people “link their name to an attractive role”, whether that be a job or hobby.
He says “most people in their life do something that is considered very attractive by others. You’ve just got to work out what that is and make others associate you name with it”.
He gives the example of Sarah being known, not just as Sarah, but as Sarah the yoga teacher, because yoga is something people find attractive.
Then, he explains “super attractive people play to their strengths”.
“If you have a beautiful smile, smile in every picture… if you have an attractive voice, send voice notes instead of sending texts.”
The fifth sign, he says, of a super attractive person is “unrivalled confidence that comes, not from arrogance, but high levels of competence”.
The response from his followers was so positive that Jacob made a second video, looking at a further five attributes of the “super attractive”.
First, he says attractive people find it hard to make friends with people of the same gender because they are “jealous of you because of your good looks and they see you as competition”.
Second, he says “some people will say mean things to you to make you feel insecure about yourself”.
He puts this down to the fact attractive people make others feel insecure, and the person saying mean things wants the attractive person to feel the same as them.
Another sure sign you’re attractive is that people you’ve dated develop “big egos”.
It’s because “getting you” makes them feel there is “something special about them”.
Strangely, he also lists “people start to brag to you”, as a sign you’re super attractive.
This, he says, is because these people are trying to impress you.
And finally “people act super surprised when you tell them you’re single”.
“This is actually accurate,” says one of Lucas’ followers, with hundreds commenting about how many out of five they scored.
“Absolutely, you have hit every point perfectly! People should take your advice, it works,” says another fan.
Not everyone is impressed though.
“Who wants to associate with people who behave like that. Give me ordinary men and women without pretentions any day,” said one comment.
“Nah, that’s BS,” said another.
“Attractive people are accessible, cool and nice. You’re thinking of shallow people.”
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