I’ve been hearing a lot about the concept of personal magnetism lately. How exactly does increasing one’s personal magnetism translate to a more successful dating life and stronger relationships?
Increasing personal magnetism involves a combination of inner and outer qualities that draw people towards you. There are a few things that you can do to enhance your personal magnetism which include developing confidence as well as maintaining positive body language, to name a few.
People who have a high amount of personal magnetism usually have no problems finding people to date. The opposite sex is often attracted to people who are well liked by others. So, it follows naturally that if you increase your own personal magnetism, you are setting the stage for a better dating life.
While being good looking or having money might make it easier for people to find dates, it is less important when you have a high amount of magnetism. If people are drawn to you, your chances of finding someone special are that much greater.
This is because you’ll come in contact with more people that find you likable. And people like to talk to others about likable people. In fact, you’ll find they will try to set up people they know for dating. Being a likable person will put you at the top of that list.
Your positive magnetism will also make it easier to find second and subsequent dates, too. Since you are likable, the people you date will have no problem saying yes to dating again.
However, it is very likely that you will be the one in the driver’s seat. If you find dates that aren’t right for you, being magnetic is going to make it easy to move on. There won’t be any need to settle, which some people tend to do.
The reason increasing your personal magnetism increases your success with dating is because people make decisions about whether they like someone within seconds of meeting them.
Let me rephrase that…it will only take micro-seconds for someone to establish if they like you. They will make a choice within those few seconds which means if you are likable, more people will choose favorably when they meet you. People with magnetic personalities tend to be able to read others well and determine whether the two of you are compatible.
If you are already married, you can still take advantage of increasing your personal magnetism. Your spouse will enjoy the “new you” and it can help your relationship in a big way. It can bring you closer and make for a more intimate relationship. It can sometimes be the turning point in troubled relationships.
If you want a better dating life or want to enhance your existing relationship, take the steps to increase your personal magnetism. Because after all, you’ll reap the rewards of meeting more people for potential dates or you’ll improve your existing situation…what more could you want? Either way, you’ll be in a position to enjoy a happier life.
Your Bestie,
Amanda x
Amanda Lambros is a sexologist and relationship coach with almost two decades of experience who takes pride in her “no b-s” approach to solving your problems. She is also a certified speaking professional and has written several books on relationships, health and business which have sold more than 150,000 copies.
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